The love she understands is to humble yourself into the dust and then bloom flowers from the dust.
The love he understands is to be trapped and controlled so as not to fall into disgrace, and to grow old together while having a little fun together.
He stumbled around for six years and disappeared for four years.
Goodbye,
She said: "Please stop talking to me from the perspective of a buddy, I'm so scared."
He said, "What about the husband's perspective?"