If you really live in an era of feudal confinement and frequent wars, love will never be controlled by others. There is no so-called risking one's life for love, there is no so-called conquering mountains and rivers for love, and there is no so-called disregarding the world for love. There, you have a free heart, but there is no sky to fly.
Don't dream about being in love and growing old together, because you will be heartbroken by the dream when you wake up.