I gradually began to understand that some things can only be obtained by insisting on not letting go. The more stubborn you are, the more painful it will be. The person who stood with me by the river on a cold winter night, but never said a word, is the person I belong to in this life. Maybe his name has been engraved in my heart since then, but I was too slow and it took too much time and effort to see it clearly. Fortunately, it was all in time, and fortunately you were always behind me.