I have some experience in conquering male gods.
It can be summed up in three words - thick-skinned!
But this skill is too outdated, and if you know it well, others will, so you have to come up with new tricks.
Persist in telling the male god a (hun) laughing (duan) word (zi) every day, and you must achieve a deep impression in the male god's mind.
Finally I succeeded.
This article is also called "The male god who loves to listen to jokes" and "The male god, who promised to be aloof"