Women of any era must be independent and self-reflective. Only when a woman can live independently can she love bravely, and sometimes she must have the courage to give up as a last resort. Love is like gambling. If you lose, you can only blame greed. If you are not greedy for profit, how can you gamble? If you don't covet that person's promise, how can you go back and pay for it? Love is always a beautiful thing. If you know how to love yourself, how can you be sad that the person doesn't love you?