It is understandable for men to be poor, but it is totally deserved for women to be poor. This is what Lu Sifei taught me, and I will use it throughout my life. When I first met her, she said there were only two kinds of people in the world: rich and poor. I said no, there is also Superman. She gave me an eye roll. I was twenty years old at the time, wearing a T-shirt, jeans and sneakers. The most expensive cosmetics I ever used were Dabao. My dream was to marry my first boyfriend.