It's Rare to Be Born Again

For the so-called "true love", she acted impulsively and held on for the rest of her life. Even if the case is raised with eyebrows raised, it is difficult to settle the matter. She was tired of trying it again, and she no longer wanted to struggle in vain. But I didn't expect that a natural match would turn out to be the most rare thing. ※※※※※※※※※※※※ When a woman meets a good man, she does not need to mature in her whole life. When a woman becomes more mature and stronger, it proves that she has not met a good man. If a relationship doesn't make you a better person, then unfortunately you are with the wrong person. No matter who you have loved, there is only one outcome. The one who stays with you until the end is true love. The happiest moment for a person is to find the right person, who pampers you, indulges your habits, and loves everything about you. The male protagonist is a good man and the female protagonist is very happy! ^_^ ☆☆Stop leaving repeated messages saying that the heroine is pretentious. I know that the heroine is not a lovable character. She is squeamish, willful and ignorant, but so what? I would rather she be so lively and wanton than be sensible and bear the burden of humiliation. Girls who are too sensible often have no good results. I'm not a self-centered, materialistic woman. I've just seen too many stories of self-sacrifice, seeking nothing, and sad endings. ☆☆Demining, don't enter if you don't like it! 1. First person 2. The heroine is a coquettish girl, immature in the early stage, pretentious and pretentious. She never really grew up in her last life until her death, and has a pessimistic attitude towards relationships. 3. There are a lot of psychological descriptions and chicken soup insights. ☆☆Friendly reminder: If you accidentally step on a thunderstorm, please click the "×" in the upper right corner for emergency escape! Please don't torture yourself! Abuse of the author is strictly prohibited! ※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※※ "About the setting of the heroine and answers to readers' questions" The author suddenly realized today that he is so stupid! I should have opened a post long ago to talk about the setting of the heroine, so that readers would not lament over and over again that the heroine is so pretentious, or tell the author kindly that the age setting you wrote is too buggy, and your writing is out of shape. Actually no, that's how the heroine is set up. First-person writing does have the disadvantage that you can't clearly understand what the character is like. Because the perspective you see and the psychological activities you understand are all of the character itself, and we all know that self-perception is always biased. So what is the heroine in the author's setting like? In fact, I have revealed and hinted at what kind of person the heroine is in the details in the article, but I think I probably didn't pay attention to it as carefully as those who read it personally. Everyone knows the background of this heroine. She is the daughter of a wealthy family, the youngest child of four older brothers, and is loved by her parents and brothers. It is not an exaggeration to say that she is a princess, so this princess is pretentious and pretentious, and has serious princess disease. Regarding the heroine's previous life, as seen in the first chapter, it seems to be very tragic. But what about the reality? In the author's setting, Cui Mingyuan is definitely not a scumbag, and even his family members are not that great. Many people mentioned that since we no longer loved each other for such a long time in the previous life, why bother to torture each other? Yes, if two people no longer love each other, it is indeed difficult to endure it. Therefore, they had been married for such a long time and never divorced until their death, just because, in fact, they still loved each other. Cui Mingyuan made mistakes due to reasons that will be mentioned later, but looking at his reaction when the heroine died, including the psychological activities when the heroine talked to her granddaughter, he even knelt down to beg the heroine for forgiveness, it can be seen that from beginning to end, he loved the heroine very much. You know, the heroine's revenge on Cui Mingyuan is just to be indifferent to him. If he is a person who doesn't care about you, will your indifference be revenge for him? He sees that you can't reach it, and wishes you to stay far away from him. So when the heroine does this, she is being arrogant. I know you love me, I know you care about me, I know that I ignore you and you feel miserable, so I do this on purpose to get revenge on you. And you can tell from this reaction that the heroine doesn't love Cui Mingyuan anymore. You are always struggling with revenge and whether to forgive someone. Doesn't that mean you still care about him? So this is just hypocritical pique. I love you, but I just don't forgive you! From the first chapter, it can be fully demonstrated how accomplished the heroine is. For us normal people, a man may have made a small mistake, but he still loves you deeply, wakes up afterwards, apologizes to you in various ways, treats you well from now on, and never makes the same mistake again. Then will you forgive him? I think generally women who don't want to get divorced and are soft-hearted will forgive me. If you really feel that you can't stand it, you won't be able to bear it, and you will divorce decisively long ago. So this is really the previous life of a heroine who deserved to die. Originally, she could actually spend the rest of her life happily, but she just tortured each other hypocritically, abused herself, and even doubled up on Cui Mingyuan. At the subsequent wedding, I compared the wedding style of the heroine's previous life. In fact, if you look carefully, you will find that the wedding in the previous life, which the heroine felt was extremely compromising and was slighted, was just a normal wedding for ordinary people, right? Ordinary people, who would have a beach wedding? Air tickets and accommodation for relatives and friends alone are a big expense, so only those who are not short of money would do this. As for plastic rings, anyone who has ever been married or attended a wedding should know that sometimes these fake rings are even prepared by wedding companies. Wedding rings are very valuable things to most people. On the wedding day, there are various ceremonies and various people coming and going. The ring is not worn on the hand at the beginning, but is used during the ceremony. If you really use a real ring, who will lose it if it is lost? As for inviting a well-off relative among relatives to officiate at the wedding, or inviting a superior leader, etc., This is all normal human behavior. But this was completely different from the wedding of the class where the heroine lived, and she felt extremely wronged. In fact, it just illustrates one problem: it's not enough to be a good match! The heroine has been pampered since she was a child. She has rarely been wronged, so her endurance is very limited. A little trivial matter that is not worth mentioning is a big deal to her. Of course, we can't blame her, just like Princess and the Pea, she can't sleep with just one pea. This isn't her fault, it's because she is too delicate! So this is why a poor family cannot afford to marry a eldest lady. Marrying someone back home is also like being an ancestor. If you are wronged, others will be wronged even more. Everyone is right, but there is no way, the life gap is too big, it is just not suitable! From the beginning of her life, the heroine approached marriage with the attitude of trying to save face and marry Minato. Some readers feel that the female protagonist is too much. The male protagonist is so kind to her, how can she be so indifferent to him? I think this is normal, but it's too strange for my parents to complain about it. Think about it, "The male protagonist is so good to the female protagonist, how can the female protagonist be bad to the male protagonist?" This logic, in the first person, is: I love you so much, how can you not love me? = =Do you have a sense of déjà vu as the protagonist Qiong Yao? What would you think if you met such a person in reality? Deep well ice! It's your business to love me, and I didn't ask you to love me. Why do I owe you if you love me, and I have to love you? I'm not tired of you harassing me all day long, it's so annoying! What do you like about me and what do you love about me? Can't I change it? Please take back your noble love. I can't afford it, can you? Just like the point I expressed through the mouth of the male protagonist in Chapter 41: Love is inherently a selfish thing, and loving someone is never more noble than being loved. When you love someone, they never ask you to do so. You just satisfy your desire to love them. And if he doesn't love you, he is just following his heart that he doesn't want to love you. Why do you have to ask for so much in the name of love? In the final analysis, whether you love someone or not is your own choice and your own business. As long as that person doesn't deliberately deceive you or take advantage of your love, he is completely free not to love you, and there is nothing wrong with that! Finally, someone always mentions that the heroine lived for decades in her previous life and was still so childish, so her life was in vain! I find this very strange. Does how long you live have anything to do with how mature you are? Yes, generally we will continue to mature mentally as we grow older, but it is not just that we are older, but that we are exposed to more things and the surrounding environment has changed. We have no choice but to grow up! Why is it said that people who leave society early are more mature than those who have been in school? Why do you say that you will grow up when you become a parent? Why do the children of poor people become parents early while the children of well-off families are ignorant? It is because maturity has nothing to do with age. You will have no worries about food and clothing throughout your life. You will be given everything you want and protected in whatever you want to do. There is no need to grow up. If you live your whole life and live until you are old, you may not be able to catch up with the maturity of young people who are struggling to survive in society! So why is the heroine childish? After the heroine has lived like this all her life, how could she not be naive? ============ Please bookmark this column! This is very important! ^_^ #Favorite_1{color: red; font-weight: bold; border-style: double;} Intention: