I would like to send this article to the girls who are growing up!
In Christa Michael's book "Marilyn Monroe and Arthur Miller", there was a scene where Monroe wrote "Hope Hope Hope" on her wedding photos, and Arthur engraved "Now is Eternity" on the wedding ring. This casual scene This period vividly reflects the attitudes of women and men towards marriage. For women, marriage is hope, the future, the destination, and the expectation for the rest of their lives; while for men, it is just a reflection of the feelings of this period; therefore, their separation is not unexpected.
When you love someone, you put your hope in life into the other person's hands. From then on, you also give the other person the right to hurt yourself. Either suffering or crying, in short, it is no longer a life that one can control.
But in this world, there are not many people who can bear the hopes of others. Either they are tired, tired, or heavy, and they will eventually be mistreated and let down. Therefore, don't let others abandon your hope. Your hope in life is only in yourself. You must understand this in the end.
Including myself, everything is changing, just like nature, everything in the world is changing and alternating. Like day and night, like the sun and the moon, like winter and summer; just like human emotions, there is deep love, shallow love, and of course no love.
When one day we encounter unlovedness unexpectedly, I hope we will still love ourselves. Then whether we have to compromise or change our ways, we can still find our own happiness.