If you love him, marry him,
Because he is sincere, kind, young and handsome.
If you hate him, stay away from him,
Because he has no house, no car, no money, and is unemployed.
If you love him, send him to New Zealand,
Because it is beautiful, clean, peaceful and friendly.
If you hate him, send him to New Zealand,
Because there is poverty, depression, loneliness, and despair.
This is my autobiography, written one afternoon five months after I left New Zealand, in a remote border town in northern China. A few days ago, I played "The Lord of the Rings" to T's students in class and told them that I had been to all the places in the movie. I had lived in that haunted place for nearly two years. That was not the beginning of my story with T, but it was the beginning of a big turning point in my life. . .