One person's decision affects the fate of two generations, but a man's commitment costs the youth of two generations of women.
In order to repay his kindness, my grandfather decided the fate of his mother. The mother died of depression, leaving behind an orphaned and weak brother. The stepmother decided on her marriage. She married a man who she loved, tried to give birth to her mother's dowry, and raised her brother. She was still a girl after nearly three years of marriage. Should she wait to be divorced and go home, or would she give birth to a child and have someone to rely on for the rest of her life?
A wise man will eventually make a mistake. He raised other people's children and married his own daughter. Another woman's fate was changed because of her own decision. Although she had her own factors, she still felt uneasy.
Fortunately, her son was raised well and she finally forgave herself.
If your children are all filial, why should you marry again?
Another girl's story can be interspersed in the middle. (The daughter of the invisible hero)
The girl was accidentally saved by the heroine, and she also had some affection for the heroine's son. The heroine also hesitated, should she fulfill the love between her son and the girl, or should she keep her daughter by her side selfishly? But the girl has her own destiny. Her identity determines that she and they cannot become a family. On the other hand, the daughter and son have grown up, and even if there is no love, there will be family affection.
The invisible male protagonist pays special attention to the female protagonist because he is kind to his daughter. Because there are differences between men and women, he only sends servants to send gifts and supports his daughter to visit the female protagonist. (He is a close friend and has never met, but he helped the female protagonist reconcile and calm down the rumors about the heroine's ex-husband. It can be regarded as repaying the favor.) When the family once again used the excuse that the daughter and son had no mother to teach him, he wanted to marry the female protagonist. Under deliberate arrangements, the male protagonist "accidentally met" the female protagonist and tested her feelings.
The heroine said: "I have everything now, why should I get married and work for you? I may not be rewarded for my efforts in the future. Because I am not a stepmother, so they will have a good impression of me. But once the identity changes, everything will be different. My mother has devoted her whole life because of her kindness, but I don't plan to do this anymore. Your children have no one to teach them. You can find a nun who comes from the palace. With your status, you can definitely find the best. Marrying a wife is just to extend the line of heirs. You have neither children nor women to take care of your daily life and take care of your home. Your wife has been gone for so many years, and there are not many girls around you. It doesn't matter if I marry her. Now I have children around my knees, waiting to take care of my grandchildren. Why should I be a stepmother and a stepwife to make myself miserable? Maybe I will even deserve it for my life? (Can you guarantee that your wife's death was not an accident? According to the girl's story, the heroine guessed that the girl's mother died in the privacy of the back house.)
It's not that a woman can't live without a man. Fengguan Xia'e's son can be earned, and she can do it herself. The heroine is idle and bored, and still does business. When she has more money, she does charity. When the country is fighting, she donates most of her family property. Of course, it is also because her natal brother and son are on the battlefield. In order to reward her contribution, the emperor gave her a royal decree.
The heroine doesn't want anything, as long as she can continue to serve the country in the future. If she doesn't have a country, where can she have a family? He won the emperor's favor very much and hugged the emperor's thigh tightly for his son and brothers.