Xie Ling and Yu Man were together without any warning. That was after the school basketball game. Later, people in the same dormitory asked Xie Ling how they got together. Xie Ling said: "It was after the basketball game that day. He was very sad. I was with him, and he said he was very sad. He suddenly said that he wanted to fall in love, and I wanted to fall in love too, so we got together."