Ji Qian's life before she was eight years old was a tragedy, but after meeting Su An at the age of eight, it turned into a vine-like sadness. The Buddha said that there are eight sufferings in life:
Birth, old age, illness, death,
Love is separated, resentment lasts for a long time, cannot ask for, cannot let go.
Ji Qian could not let go of Su An in her whole life, let alone seek Su An.