Is it destiny or is it a fate that has not been completed in the previous life? Does it have to be him (her), or is it a gentleman's promise to hold his hand and spend this life together? This article is both humorous and refreshing. Stop clinging to your distant first love, grasp the present moment, that is the truth. This article is a combination of the author's personal experience and good expectations for the future. It is the author's painstaking work. I hope readers who can resonate with me will join in this warm article created by Su Su!