As a 20-year-old who hates marrying an artistic female gangster, finding a decent man to marry is the most important thing, and everything else is nonsense.
On the long road to find happiness, the following situations will happen:
Meeting strange people on a blind date (allowing you to gain various insights);
Fall in love with someone who doesn't love you back (just be my boyfriend, if it works, I'll think of another way if it doesn't);
We finally got together and faced various practical problems (getting married is so difficult, why not become a monk).
In short, getting married seems difficult, but finding the right person seems incredibly easy!