Crossing the river to pick hibiscus, there are many fragrant grasses in the orchids.
Who do you want to leave behind? What you are thinking about is far away.
I still look back at my old hometown, the long road is long and vast.
We are of the same mind and separated, and we end up in sorrow.
—— Han Dynasty's "Plucking Hibiscus across the River"
The pain of separation is actually more painful than separation of death!