It is very difficult for a man to find a beautiful woman. If you worry too much, find someone who is not beautiful, but you are not willing to accept it. If you patronize your career, people will say you have no sense of responsibility. If you patronize your family, people will say you have no ability. If you are more dedicated, people will say you are immature. If you are more carefree, people will say you are a beast. ; If you have money, you will be called a bad person; if you have no money, you will be called a wimp; work on your own, and your girlfriend will be old when you have money; let a woman support you, why not practice the Sunflower Book in your palace? If you don't go to social events, you are afraid of being ruined by your boss, if you go to social events, you are afraid of being ruined by your wife, ugh~~~~ It's really hard to be a man these days.
Women can wait to get married, so what are we waiting for? Women still have Women's Day, what do we have? If you are handsome, you are too popular, but if you are not handsome, you are not available; if you are lively, you are said to be too greasy, but if you are quiet, you are said to be too boring; if you wear a suit, you are said to be too serious. Wear whatever you want and call you a country bumpkin; if you can make money, you will be afraid of having a mistress; if you can't make money, you will be afraid of weaning the child; if you get married, you will be afraid of regrets; if you don't get married, you will be afraid of her regrets; if you want a child, you will be afraid that you won't have the money to support her; if you don't want a child, you will be afraid of weaning. There is no one to support you when you are old. It is difficult to be a woman these days, and it is even more difficult to be a man. Otherwise, how would we call "NAN" (difficult) people? Moreover, the 2002 supplement of the "Modern Chinese Dictionary" included the word "man" on the "991" page.
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