The first time, he said to her "I like you", but she was so frightened that she disappeared immediately and was not seen for five years; the second time was five years later, he found her and said, "Just follow me", but she disappeared again; the last time, he designed to trick her into the auditorium and said, "Please, if you don't agree, then I will have to marry you by force." This time she didn't run away again, and the evidence was pulled. What reason did she have not to believe in the relationship?