One is a military man, domineering and tough, who doesn't know how to relax, but only knows how to be affectionate;
One is a young man from a poor family who is controlled by others. He has experienced pain and put on a thick suit of armor for himself.
It's not that I don't love you, it's that I can't let go of the past and pretend that there are no rifts.
A bond of support bound two people's hands and feet, unable to move forward or retreat, hurting each other, and going around in circles.
HE, slightly abused