When you develop an infatuation for someone you always find a reason to believe that this is exactly the person for you. It doesn't need to be a good reason. Taking photographs of the night sky, for example. Now, in the long run, that's just the kind of dumb, irritating habit that would cause you to split up. But in the haze of infatuation, it's just what you've been searching for all these years.
When you are infatuated with someone, you will always find a reason to believe that they are yours. This doesn't require a good reason, like photographing the night sky. Now on this long journey, this may be a silly or even annoying habit, and maybe you break up over it. But in this hazy and longing love, that is exactly the reason you have been looking for for many years. ------------------"The Beach"