If a heroic, calm and wise SWAT officer walked into your life, would you be willing to harass him? Pursue? Wait? Stalking? Or will the beauty save the hero? Time says that we are willing to share joys and sorrows, and it would not be a pity to die with a smile in exchange for a special police officer.
Things in the world are often not as simple as God's will. People who pursue happiness need experience. They just hope that God can be merciful and allow happiness to pass the exam without failing!