One is a royal weakling, and the other is a gang leader. One is soft on the outside but hard on the inside, and the other is soft on the inside. One is like a wild crane in idle clouds, and the other is like a powerful man of the times. One gives up everything for himself, the other gives up the world for his lover. One is as quiet as a virgin and as active as a stripped rabbit, the other is as cold as ice and as hot as fire. One thinks that the only one who loves him in the world is himself, while the other thinks that if he gives up himself, he will have the world.
If you have love, you will get hurt, if you don't have love, you will go crazy. Love, too much is too painful, too little is tasteless. The mind is not controlled, but it can guide the direction. Let go of the worldly dream, take off the protective color, and realize love.