If you knew for sure that this relationship would be fruitless, would you still start it? I clearly know that the day we separate will be filled with heart-rending pain, so do I still want to reach out and grab this person now?
What if I'm not afraid of death? Doesn't it matter even if it hurts to death? So, is he also willing to stop and stay with me for a while? I pay with my life just to wish him to stay for a while...