Hou Huai said to Fang Fang: "It's been too easy for you to get everything since you were a child. You don't know what it means to lose. I'm different. You have to work very hard to get everything. You can't understand me." Fang Fang disagreed: "It's easy for you to get me." She felt that she said I was willing, and the contract was finalized.
Later, Fang Fang said to Hou Huai: "It's easy for me to get everything, but what I want most cannot be obtained. I have never tasted the feeling of losing, but it is impossible to get back what I can't let go of." He asked: "What do you love me for?" She looked at him without saying anything, and he said: "This is not love, it is possessiveness." She sighed.
Their growth experiences, living environments, value orientations, and ways of thinking are all very different. How do they love each other, how do they get along, and how do they tolerate each other? Is it a blessing or a misfortune for them to be together like this?