In today's society, some people become sophisticated in order to protect themselves. They call this "growing up."
Some people are unwilling to become hypocritical, insist on themselves, keep a straightforward heart, and treat others with true feelings, but they are deeply hurt...
In this society, being sophisticated is not wrong. If it can protect oneself from being harmed and exploited by others, then it can be said to be an excellent protective shield. However, some people have been in the protective shield for a long time, and have gradually forgotten that the reason for putting on the shield in the first place was protection. Instead, they turned their sophistication into weapons, playing with others in the palm of their hands, becoming the same type of people as those who have hurt themselves and those they despise...
To my friends, if one day, the tact that you firmly believe can maintain the relationship between all parties peacefully has gone against your original wishes and become a weapon to hurt others. If one day, the thoughtfulness and patience that you firmly believe in is no longer the lubricant of the relationship, but has become the barrier between us, what will you do...