This world is very strange. Many things often happen suddenly without any time to react. There is no reason to be found, but they seem to be somehow destined. Is this feeling like what Newton said about gravity? If you don't attract it, you will only fall down. You have no time to stop it, you can't stop it, and you don't want to stop it.
Everyone is an apple growing on the apple tree of love. Different apples are attracted by different gravity. Some are happy and happy, and some are bruised. Since it is your own choice, there is nothing to regret. A life of crying or laughing is the real life.