People want to live, what's wrong with this idea?
There is nothing wrong with wanting to protect the person you cherish most and wanting to live for it.
It's really nice to meet the one you love, isn't it?
Don't be self-righteous and judge others based on your own subjectivity. What you think is for others' good is not considered by others to be for your own good. Therefore, whether you are hurting yourself or others, you must think about the feelings of the person you are doing. Sacrificing yourself for the one you love to satisfy your desire to love is really a selfish manifestation.