One is using but hesitating, the other is being used but is willing to
"Even if you don't have me at all in your heart, I would like to see you with green hair and a jade face, so that you can get what you want."
Wine is called "giving up summer", giving up summer, giving up, love or hate, which one should be given up?
(Shexia, a fine wine from Gunan Sui, is mellow and pungent at the beginning. If you like the mellowness and continue to drink it, the pungency will become stronger. If you drink too much, the mellow and pungent wine will alternate and eventually become bitter. However, if you stop drinking before it becomes bitter and keep your mouth shut, the mellow aroma will gradually become stronger between the teeth, and finally it will be refreshing and linger on the tongue, with endless aftertaste)