It's okay to marry, but please marry a normal and good man.
What is a normal good person?
For example, the IQ is equal to that of the average person
For example, not being sultry, not being arrogant, and not being venomous.
For example, I won't put some chronic smoke on my clothes.
For example, you won't dig a hole ten years ago and predict that you will jump into it ten years later...