First, it is best not to meet each other, so that you can not fall in love.
The second is that it is best not to know each other, so that you can not miss each other.
Third, it is best not to accompany each other, so that you will not owe each other.
Fourth, it is best not to cherish each other, so that you can not remember each other.
Fifth, it is best not to fall in love, so as not to abandon each other.
Sixth, it is best not to face each other, so that we can not meet.
Seventh, it is best not to misunderstand each other, so that there will be no negative consequences.
Eighth, it is best not to agree to each other, so that there will be no continuity.
Ninth, it is best not to depend on each other, so you can not depend on each other.
The tenth is best not to meet each other, so you can avoid getting together.
But we know each other once we have seen each other, and it is better to see each other than not.
Ande and you are inseparable, so we don't have to worry about missing each other in life and death.
--Tsangyang Gyatso