Later I found out that my mother had a hard-to-leave relationship from the time she came into contact with Danmei. She came up with a wish that she must realize in her lifetime, and used the spirit of the Foolish Old Man to move mountains to spur herself. She hoped to give birth to a boy after pregnancy, and then cultivate him well from an early age. If the education failed, he would be told to marry early and place his hope on a grandson. If a girl was born, he would be instilled in her about the benefits of early marriage and early childbearing, and asked to give birth to a grandson early to carry on the dream.
Don't think that this is the patriarchal mentality of feudal families at work. It's just that my dear mother wants to create a classic gay couple in her real life.
So I was born with my mother's hopes and dreams...