Her life was a "cup". For more than ten years, she devoted everything she had to making wedding clothes for others, but she still thought that the "wedding clothes" were her own. God took pity on her misery and gave her a warm man to add a touch of warmth to her miserable life, but the beautiful man hung on a thread to save her. If you want to say that you are a fish, the warm man is a bear's paw. So at least in this part of her "cup" life, the warm man is the only "washing utensil", so she decided to give up the fish for the bear's paw...