Author's quote: The most glorious time in a person's life should be the 20 years from 20 to 40. Because during this period we grow up and have our own thoughts, understand the various emotions in the world, set goals for life, make friends for the next life, and have a lover for the next life. What does it take to be considered a lover? How can one be considered a confidant? People with lovers above AUO are not satisfied, and this situation abounds. In fact, I think it is easy to distinguish. A confidant should be placed above the heart, while a lover should be in the heart... If you feel your heart trembles slightly when a person is acting or encountering, then you can regard this person as a confidant and treat him with sincerity throughout your life. If a person makes you heartbroken and heartbroken in the way they behave, then this person has entered your bones and blood and will never be separated from you.