I remember when I was very young, I said to my mother-in-law in the rain of apricot blossoms, "Marrying is troublesome. If I have money and things to survive, why should I get married? There are vows in this world, but with vows, there will be lies and some people will break their promises. There is only one Amma in this world. He can do this for my mother-in-law, but no one will do this for me."