It's just a game, who will be tempted first? Who loses and who wins?
The world is inherently unfair. What qualifications do you have to ask others to give you what you want? Is it because you have a father who is better than others? So after losing to me, an orphan, what do you have left? Are you particularly unwilling?
The struggle never ends, whether it is a man or a woman. What we care about is which move you made in this war!