Hua Xun (to Lianzi): I'm afraid she will no longer be what she is now. If she were a woman, he could still find her in her ninth life. With his charm, no man in the world can be his opponent. But if she is reincarnated as a man, what should he do? He definitely doesn't have the habit of Longyang, and he doesn't want to watch her reincarnated as a man marry someone else. He can't stand it, let alone turn into a beast.
Lian Zi (to Hua Zhen): Traveling through nine centuries, it doesn't matter whether he is a man or a woman or an animal, I just want to see him again.
To sum it up in one sentence: It is the fault of their thinking that makes them miss it.