Any intimate relationship cannot tolerate the intervention of a third party. Love is like this, and family affection is like this. Sometimes we can't tell which emotion we are feeling. However, it requires paranoid guarding and defense. We have a natural need for love, but we cannot expect a man to be our father, brother, and lover. That is an unattainable dream. Everything is love and need, which can no longer be explored. Just know that holding on is the safest way. We are growing up every day, but have we really grown up?