Occasionally in the dead of night I think back to the day I came out. My cousin Bai Yang is at home, and my parents are also there. I told them calmly that I was gay.
Bai Yang was not surprised at all, but her parents stared at me and asked, "Am I kidding?"
I told them at the time that I wasn't kidding at all.
Normally, people would get angry and angry, but my parents were very calm. The mother shook her twice, then held her chest with her hands and ordered her father to move her back, and that was it.
No one ever mentioned it again, although I knew they would never forget it.
Bai Yang later told me that she had known for a long time that I was gay. She said that gay people all have behaviors, but I didn't ask her what they were. I know she warned my parents in advance about my abnormal sexual orientation, but I don't thank her.
I would rather my parents beat me up and call me shameless or something, so that I would at least feel a little guilty to them.
I don't feel guilty though.