He is obviously a man, but he is dressed as a girl and likes to be in a daze just like women.
He is obviously a man, but he is as tall and thin as a girl.
He obviously suffered the same as a woman, but he was a guy who knew how to fight.
Even if the only person you can rely on dies, you still have to be able to live.
The dead have to keep remembering and living in the past.