When I was a child, the question I often considered was not what to wear when I get up in the morning, whether to comb my hair in a ponytail or to tie it in pigtails. Children in orphanages are not capable of thinking about these things. If you are in an orphanage, the most important thing you think about every day is who will pick you up, who will be your new father and mother, and whether they will send you back after taking you away.