After watching "The Secret History of Xiaozhuang", in addition to sighing at the poignant love between Dayu'erhe and Duoergun, I also felt unwilling to accept the helplessness in my heart. I always think in my heart, if it were me, in modern times, it would be difficult to understand this kind of repressed love, so I would definitely ignore some love. So I want to use this article to explore the possible consequences of modern people in that era and under that situation, which is also a kind of self-compensation for that incomplete love. This is my first time writing an article, all for my own entertainment. If I don't write well, please correct me and I will humbly correct it. (Bow):)