The so-called fate,
I like him, he likes me,
It's that simple,
There may be some bumps in the middle,
But in the end it will be good if we are together,
Nothing else matters.
In fact, if you look at it from another angle, this is not a small piece of abuse. To me, as long as two people love each other, two people are together, and the two people do not hurt each other, it is not considered abuse.