Love has always been noble and even sacred. It has been sung and sung again and again. Even those martyrs of love think that they have really dedicated themselves to love. In fact, what they dedicated their lives may be just a kind of nihilistic belief.
But we are becoming more and more snobbish. When it comes to choosing love, the first consideration must be material factors. You don't have a house, a car, or a job. I fall in love with your talent? That was something that young literary people did in the 1980s. You can only sing romantic love songs but have nothing, but I follow you? That was the crazy behavior of girls in the 1990s. Nowadays, women fall in love with their lovers and then marry a rich man. If they cannot marry a rich man, they must marry a blue chip stock. Because without an economic foundation, too many superstructures have collapsed.
In the past, I would look down on girls who must marry rich men, but now, I think that is their freedom. After all, you only have one beauty, so why should I pay off the loan and house together with you and turn myself into a yellow-faced woman? It's really snobbish to say this, but indeed, love is so snobbish. If you don't believe it, look at those people who are crying and clamoring for divorce. How many of them are not love snobbery?
As the saying goes, women don't care about decency, decency is because they are not tempted enough; men don't care about loyalty, they are loyal because the stakes for betrayal are too low...