Living on someone else's territory, you can't see a companion when you look up. Even if you are an alien with supernatural powers, an elite in a cement city with a body, or a pseudo-native with a soul in the city, if you are alone, you still have to eat, sleep, fight, and abide by the rules of the world.
A young student who has just entered the world, even a rookie, will have the opportunity to grow and progress after going through hardships, move up in society, become mature, and have the desire for exclusivity, control, and protection of a male adult over his or her spouse.
In life, there is the passion of drinking, the righteousness of life and death, the warmth of holding hands, the heartbeat of hugging, and the pleasure of consummating a marriage; but the embarrassment of food, clothing, housing, and transportation, the intolerance and bitterness of being in the world, as well as discomfort, heartache, and despair are also part of life and cannot be separated.
One day, we looked back together and realized that the mountains and hurdles we had gone through together were all sweet.