What Ming should do is open your mind and embrace everything. Who can live without change? Whether it is good or bad, if you are entangled in the past and live in the shadow of the past, you will not only be unable to appreciate the scenery along the way, but you will also be physically and mentally exhausted when you reach the end. So, let it go and step out, no matter it is good or bad, with a relaxed heart you can enjoy the beautiful scenery and experience transformation easily. Come to think of it, turning a cocoon into a butterfly is also a painful process. If the silkworm blindly thinks that it is a silkworm, how can the butterfly have the cuteness of the silkworm and refuse to transform, and how can it appreciate the lightness and beauty of the butterfly? That's it, imagine yourself as a silkworm, and after the painful process, it's a beautiful butterfly.