The most difficult thing about love is not how to love someone, but the fact that you can't stop loving someone when you don't want to. It's like you don't want to cry, but you can't help it. Just like taking drugs, if you want to quit, it will be worse than death. It doesn't hurt, but there are thousands of ants gnawing at your bone marrow. It makes you unable to live without love. But the person you love will always give you some love and some hate, making the poison hundreds and thousands of times stronger, making you unable to stop.
This article tells the story of a man who made a mistake once and was tortured by a woman in the same way ten or eight times, and then he never dared to make a mistake again.