Huimen is a particularly strange word to use here. When a woman gets married and returns to her parents' home with her husband three days later, that is called returning home. Ordinary people's homes have "a chicken in the left hand and a duck in the right hand". The men carry it, and the women ride on a small donkey. Later, they are more advanced and ride on a two-wheeled, three-wheeled, or four-wheeled vehicle. They bump back and forth. Some people cry when they see their parents and some don't. It depends on the customs and the woman's temperament. Then we cook and eat together as a family. After dinner, everyone talks and talks about how it's time for supper. We cook and eat again and stay overnight. We have to go back early the next day. When we leave our parents' house, we can go through all the good and bad things by ourselves.
But does someone like Ye Liang count as a return home?
It's hard to say…
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