In Qiong Yao's articles, she often expresses a love-first attitude. Both the male and female protagonists treat love as the most important thing in life. For the sake of love, family, relatives, and responsibilities often become objects that can be abandoned at will. What does a century-old inheritance from parents and grandparents count? What do relatives who are connected by blood and depend on each other for life count? What are the responsibilities that we are born with and deserve? Only true love is the most important! Qiong Yao's writings are all based on this point of view. And the heroines in her books are all flowers watered by love, women who have no other way but to wither after losing love.
In addition, we also see some distorted views. Take "A Blind Dream" as an example. Why could Zi Ling ignore the good life she lived and feel sorry for herself, ignore Lu Ping's efforts to call herself an ugly duckling when she was dreaming, and finally pretend to be a victim and steal her sister's boyfriend? Why is an intact leg that holds a girl's beautiful wishes in vain, but is not worth a heart that will soon recover? Why did everyone later blame Luping for being "unreasonably" crazy, but no one saw her sadness and resentment? Because, in Zi Ling's words, true love comes first.
This is the logic of Qiong Yao's novel, a world where love comes first. All ethics and morals, all worldly responsibilities, are empty and meaningless.