Shen Zhiwei has believed since he was a child that there is always a way to things.
If you can't play the music well, practice it. If your English is not good enough, study it. If you want to go to England, be prepared and go.
At the age of eighteen, she received the admission notice from her ideal school and became engaged to Zhou Shengyuan, whom she had known for many years. At that time, she felt that love was no different from other things in life - if there was a problem with distance, just solve the distance; if time was not enough, just arrange time. As long as two people are serious, they can always find a way.
Later, she went from undergraduate to master's and doctorate, visited more and more places, and had a bigger and bigger life.
It wasn't until she was in her twenties that she discovered for the first time that some things would definitely get better without hard work.
A truly loving relationship can still end, efforts may not get the results you want, and some questions may not even have answers at all.
It took her many years to learn to accept this.
At the age of twenty-seven, Shen Zhiwei graduated with a Ph. D., Ended nine years of overseas life, and returned to China to teach.
The old love got closer again, and the boy who once followed her and called her "Sister Zhiwei" has grown up.
This time, she no longer knew which choice was definitely the right one.
But maybe growth is not about finally finding an answer that is always right.
But after the answer changes, you still dare to choose your life again.
Purpose: Learn to respect your own choices and the choices of others in love and responsibility; life does not have to move forward forever. Allowing pauses, mistakes, and starting over is also part of growth.