Chen Xing was also a documentary writer for a cultural and tourism magazine in Hangzhou. His career was stuck at a bottleneck, so he took the initiative to apply to go to Inner Mongolia to work on pastoral areas.
She thought it was just an ordinary gathering, until the car had a flat tire on the grassland road, and the man named Alamosu drove a black pickup truck to pick her up.
He is the owner of a B&B, a native Mongolian man.
When they met for the first time, he carried her suitcase into the back of the pickup truck with skillful movements.
She thought he was just an ordinary B&B owner, but later she learned that he was guarding not just a B&B, but also a disappearing grassland and the last holdout of a traditional nomadic family.
She has written many stories, but she cannot write about him.
He had seen many passers-by, but he could not keep her.
The wind from the grassland blows through the rain from Hangzhou. Can the distance of 2,100 kilometers be covered by the words "I do"?
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When they first met, she asked him:
"Anda is Mongolian, right? What does it mean?"
He said, "Anda means friend."
Before she left she asked him:
"Then do I count as your Anda?"
"It doesn't count."
"What's that?"
He was silent for a long time, so long that she thought he wouldn't answer.
"Count people I want to keep around."
Intention: Love comes from mutual seeing and two-way fulfillment, rather than unilateral pursuit and sacrifice.