After the high school entrance examination, my parents said that I was not their biological child. I turned out to be a member of a wealthy family.
I didn't want to go home, but my father wanted to get promoted, my sister was bullied by her tutor, my mother had no choice but to meet their family, so I had no choice but to go back to a wealthy family.
When I returned to a wealthy family, I thought I could live a relaxed wealthy life. I didn't expect that the current wealthy families are a bit special.
She asked for moral, intellectual, physical and artistic skills, but I am only a single-class contestant. Dear, what I am good at is intelligence. The classmates in the class around me are all masters, with perfect scores in practical skills. Computers, dancing, piano playing, and sports are all vividly demonstrated in each of them.
And I am a representative of traditional learning. Talent and practical skills have nothing to do with me.
So every day after that.
It's time to take speaking lessons, it's time to take piano lessons, it's time to take art classes, it's time to exercise, it's time to take whatever class
The complicated courses, the excellence of my peers, the well-intentioned persecution of my family, and social norms kept coercing me. Everyone said that I should change myself, surpass others, and become a person who is morally, intellectually, physically, aesthetically, and physically capable. I obeyed, learned various talents, and competed with others in various ways, but was this really right?
I still didn't get past first place, and there was no way I could compete with other people's talents.
I began to doubt myself, hate myself, and forget my true self.
Obedience did not gain others' respect and my own happiness. I slowly began to be self-consistent, compete correctly, discover my own strengths, and find my own path.
Purpose: No one is perfect, don't give up yourself for external labels of perfection, and learn to be self-consistent